Single 2 Soulmate Testimonials

Rita Girard and Her Soulmate

I had given up on ever finding love!

I was married to my first husband (who was emotionally unavailable and verbally abusive) for 28 years. I married a second time for six years and left that husband when his verbal abuse started to get physical.

While married, I went to multiple therapists and read lots of relationship books to “fix the problems,” but nothing helped.

For years after my second divorce, I tried online dating and found myself in one painful relationship after another.

I enrolled in [a famous on-line finding love program] where I learned about mis-beliefs around love and the Law of Attraction.

I followed all their processes and was sure I would find my soulmate...

But I continued to attract and fall in love with emotionally unavailable and verbally abusive men. 

Finally, I learned of Stefan Gonick where he talked about clearing blocks to finding love and signed up for his Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program.

Unlike the things I tried in the past...

...Stefan's program had far more to do with breaking out of my pattern of being attracted to emotionally unavailable and abusive men, learning how to love myself, changing my negative beliefs about myself, and learning how to release the things that were blocking me from showing up as I truly am.

Stefan’s program was life-changing!

I had no idea of the hurt, anger, and fear that I held inside myself. Although the emotional release could be intense at times, it was also very liberating!

I came out the other side as the person I was meant to be.

After the program, I followed one of the principles of the Law of Attraction that says you can be spiritually "nudged" to do something that you wouldn't normally do to help bring you to your soulmate faster...

In my case it was to sign up to go bowling with a singles group that I had just joined. I hated bowling but felt guided to go. That’s where I met him!

John was just looking for something to do that night and saw my picture on the list of people who would be at the bowling event of his singles group.

Later, I learned that he didn’t like bowling either and only went bowling because he wanted to meet me!

He was so cute and really funny! He unabashedly flirted with me all night and bowled like his life depended on it!

We went on our first real date (a walk on the canal path) the next afternoon and we have been together ever since!

I met the love of my life, my soulmate, and married him 8 months later.

He is everything that I had ever hoped for in a life partner! He is my best friend and lover and we are perfect for each other!

I am so grateful for Stefan Gonick and the work he does to help people like me break free of the things that stop us from finding the love that is out there for us! ~Rita Girard

Before working with Stefan, my love life was a disaster!

It was full of drama. I dated men who were emotionally unavailable commitment phobes.

I was never a priority in their life, never number 1, and that used to really hurt.

When I met a guy who really did want to be with me in a genuine way, I couldn't receive it. Instead, I felt bored and superior just because he wanted to be with me!

I really wanted to get married and couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. I felt like this was never going to work out for me no matter what I did!

Stefan is super on target with the work he does and his work is different from anything I've ever done before.

Since I worked with the program, everyone has noticed the transformation in me. I have a lot more peace, I'm more positive, and I feel a lot better about myself. It's a great feeling!

When I met my husband to be, I was in a much better place in myself. I was happier and quietly confident. I was still a little dubious about dating, but when we met, everything was just magical.

He wanted to tell everyone about me, and I have been #1 in his life ever since. He's proud to be with me, and he's emotionally available! And that feels just...there's no better feeling!

I feel so fortunate to have met him, that we have our lives together, that we can plan our future together. We are always traveling together, even if it's just a quiet weekend away.

He seems to appreciate and love everything about me, even some things that I wouldn't have liked about myself. He seems to think that they are really cute!

Every day I feel like I'm waking up to the most wonderful, kind, and amazing husband in the world!

I'm really glad that Stefan developed this program! ~Anna

From the "no love caterpillar" to the "I'm so in love butterfly," that's me in a nut shell.

Before working with Stefan, I dated guy after guy, searching for Mr. Right, but the only guys that I felt attracted to were the ones that ignored me and treated me like s***t, so yeah, definitely not a good recipe of a happy life.

Here I was, almost 40 years old and had never fallen in love..

I started working with Stefan to clear all of my blocks to finding love and later that same year I met my spouse to be!

We moved in together and I can't have enough of him. He's a beautiful man and the more I get to know him as a person, the more grateful I get for having met him, and having worked with you!

I am thrilled to be in a loving and caring relationship with a wonderful man.

We're now working with an IVF clinic to get pregnant. He does my injections and talks to my belly and reminds me that  babies or no babies, we're together on this.

I'm feel blessed and lucky and I know he feels the same way. Thank you Stefan for helping me heal!
 ~ Diana

Stefan's unique approach to EFT made all the difference for me.

He helped me work through a lot of the fear, hurt and anger from my childhood that has been holding me back from love in a very short time.

My destructive relationship patterns have been lifted...including being with emotionally unavailable men and feeling unworthy of men who had the qualities I most wanted in a partner.

I am now seeing an amazing man, and we have the most emotionally healthy relationship I’ve ever had.

And he has 39 of the 40 qualities I was looking for in my dream partner!

I’m so grateful for Stefan’s help. If you’re tired of the dating wheel and ready to look at what’s holding you back from a “love of my life” connection–Stefan can help you! ~ Narine

Before your program I was in one codependent relationship after another...

They were emotionally abusive, and I was not happy and addicted to drama.

I was in a long-term relationship with an alcoholic on and off because I was too scared to be by myself.

I didn’t love myself and wasn’t very confident. I felt that being in a relationship validated me even though it wasn’t good for me.

One of the most helpful things I discovered by being in the program was that I didn’t need drama in my life.

I discovered that the feeling that I needed drama came from my childhood experiences with my dad.

I felt very abandoned by my dad growing up and thought it was because I wasn’t good enough. This defined who I was.

I discovered that I was attracted to men just like my father who were unemotional and detached.

Your program helped me release all of the hurt that I felt as a little girl with my father. It was super deep work that helped me release all of the old yucky feelings.

Afterwards, I wasn't attracted to codependent, drama-filled relationships anymore!

I want to report that I got married to the most wonderful man I've ever met! 

From the very beginning there was no question that this guy really liked me and wanted to be with me.

I am so happy and in love!

Thank you for all the tools and the wisdom that I got from doing your program.

I wish for those who are looking at doing the program...that they realize they came across you, your work, or your website, not by chance but by some form of divine intervention...just like I did. ~Margot

The healing I did with Stefan had a big effect on me... I now feel disgust towards the too cocky or arrogant guys I used to be so attracted to my whole life!

I started dating a really wonderful guy several months ago.

Everything evolved very naturally and I am surprised how easy things are with him.

He is very honest, has great communication skills and emotional intelligence.

And he makes himself emotionally and physically available!!

He is very different from any guy I've ever dated before and a complete gamer changer in my relationship life! ~ Monica

The work with Stefan has been nothing less than transformational.

I started with a feeling of overwhelming fear and doubt about myself and about love and  about life in general.

Through working with Stefan, I have been able to confidently walk into new situations at work, with my family, and on dates with ease and grace.

I now have a man in my life who is even better than what I was hoping for!

I appreciate the material available to support me and the guidance of Stefan.

He is a wise and kind man who knows how to help one overcome the oldest, deepest, and toughest stories we claim are true and create an exciting future! ~ Jessica

I purchased your Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program and I honestly think this was the best invested money of my life.

I cannot start to explain to you the dramatic change that working with EFT has caused in my life.

And I'm not just talking about a "finding a relationship" kind of level but a general life level as well.

Once the excess emotional baggage is removed, your life really starts to make dramatic changes and you just feel more relaxed and content.

On the romantic side, I'm excited to tell you that four months later I now have a wonderful relationship! ~Itzel Compan

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I have been trying for almost TEN years to attract the right woman and I attracted unavailable, distant and bossy women instead.

I've been to healers and spent THOUSANDS of Euros trying many programs, but deep inside I knew that there was something missing.

I'm just 3 weeks into your program, and it is the FIRST one to find the root of all my problems!

It's like I have a puzzle where I finally put all the pieces together.

I'm working through the rest of the program now, and I'm so excited because I finally know that there is a special woman out there for me! ~Konstantinos

I just wanted to let you know that I got your Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program in the summer.

I had been unlucky in love. I think I had a lot of unresolved issues. I had never had a serious relationship in my life - and I was 47 years old.

But, I was determined to change my old patterns. So I took your program. I listened to many of the recordings more than once and tapped along.

I didn't even realize the program was working, but my outlook on love was changing.

Labor Day weekend I met a great guy at a wedding. There were supposed to be no single men at the wedding - but we happened to sit at the same table toward the end of the evening and struck up a conversation.

It's now January and we've been dating since then and are making plans for the future. We are in love and we are talking about getting married.

Stefan, I want to thank you. Following your program helped me to open my heart and soul to a loving relationship with a great guy.

I know no relationship is perfect, but it's been surprisingly easy. No drama. No tears! ~Sandra V

I'm thrilled to share with you that after going through your program, I finally found a man who really WANTS to be with me, unlike all the men in my past!

He's a wonderful man, and we're madly in love. We're married now, and it's everything that I hoped for! ~Jennifer J.

I'm so excited! I went on a first date with a man and saw that he was emotionally unavailable and I immediately lost interest in him!

In the past I would have been drawn to him like a moth to a flame. It's incredible to not be hooked by men like that anymore!!! ~Sara M.

Finding my life partner was like trying to solve an ancient mystery. 

Even though I actively sought and educated myself with the guidance and advice from relationship experts, I still didn't understand why I was magnetically drawn to the wrong types of men.

I didn't want to waste any more of my life on unsuitable partners as I was totally worn-out by making the same mistake over and over again.

By following Stefan's EFT practices, I was finally able to permanently unearth and demolish those deeply ingrained false beliefs that kept me from finding the love of my life.

What a breakthrough! This program was beyond my expectations and I am thankful that I made the decision to seek Stefan's help! ~Julie

The Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program was nothing short of groundbreaking! Stefan incorporates Inner Child work and EFT to release the emotional trauma impeding romantic growth.

Inner Child work coupled with EFT gives you the tools necessary to gift yourself with opening the door to true emotional freedom.

Week III was unbelievable for me as I took ownership of the key core issues between me and my mother - I haven't needed to look back since.

When all is said and done, I have every confidence that these steps will ultimately lead me to attract a breathtakingly amazing partner and I will find the LIFE that I want. The point being, I feel wildly hopeful about what lies just ahead!

If after years and years of traditional talk therapy, you find you are still grappling with your same demons, the Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program will make them go POOF - once and for all. ~Elizabeth, Indiana

I loved your program! I felt very safe with you. I think you have a way of creating safety for everyone. You handled everyone's calls with care and compassion.

I liked the structure, the format. I liked the group tappings... the ones you made up... they were very effective in addressing my (our) concerns.

I liked learning about working with one's inner child, and speaking through them, addressing all of the various feelings, etc...

I learned more about myself and how one's childhood experiences affect us now.

I REALLY liked the way you demonstrated getting "angry" during the tappings, showing how to relate to our own anger in a healthy way and how to get it out and the fact that you are probably the only person I have heard get angry that didn't upset me.

I LOVED the homework assignments... they are really essential and were very appropriate and doable. This is a great offering! ~Paula

I thought your program was extremely well laid out. It coherently explained pretty complex emotional stuff in a way that made it a whole lot easier to understand. I gained a lot of new insights and ways to release old baggage.

As I mentioned in the last class, the session I had where you guided me through the issues with my father, transformed my relationship with him.

I had already done a lot of work in this area but that one session was more powerful than all the work I had done to date combined!

So thank you again! I'm sure my future relationship will reap the rewards as well. Your program met and you exceeded my expectations! ~Lesley

I just finished module 5, and I just wanted to tell you that I think you are truly gifted and a gift to the people whose lives you've touched.

I cried bucket loads (in a good way) and broke through many different levels of emotions I didn't even know I had inside me regarding particular memories/issues... Thank you! ~Margot  (Note: Margot is now married. See her testimonial near the top of the page.)

I thoroughly enjoyed your program and found it very helpful in helping me to understand the true nature of my deep 'attraction' for people that, in many ways, weren't good relationship partners.

Prior to your program, I thought I was a little crazy or overly sensitive and sentimental.

Some of my friends thought I had low self esteem because I couldn't seem to tear myself away from guys/situations that were bad for me.

Now I have a reason for why this happened, and I can't tell you how helpful that is to me! I'm very grateful for having that understanding now.

So, thank you Stefan! Your program was wonderful and I'm wildly happy that I was a part of it! ~Jacqueline

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I have experienced wonderful benefits from working with EFT clearing old memories from the past. I trust Stefan in the process to guide me through to the other side and help me to release past hurts and wounds.

I have finally come to a place of being able to live with a joyful heart most of the time.

Stefan is a gentle and intuitive healer who is gifted in helping others to open the door to healing. — Sollena K Morginn, Life Path Coach

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