The 13 Best First Date Questions and Conversation Starters

If you are going on a first date, first of all, congratulations! Going on a date with a new person is very exciting...and a little nerve wracking.

Will your date like you? Will you like your date? What will the two of you talk about? What if you run out of things to say?

You want to have a wonderful flowing conversation with your date, but sometimes your understandable anxiety can make your mind go blank...even with a great person (or especially with a great person!).

Therefore, it's great to have some juicy questions ready anytime there is a lull in the conversation!

The following questions are not just great for getting to know each other and keeping the conversation going. They will also help you quickly develop a sense of intimacy and bonding with your date.

Here Are 13 Questions for Bonding with Your Date

  • Question 1: What was one of the most fun things you've ever done?
  • Question 2: What are your favorite kinds of vacations to go on?
  • Question 3: What is one of the best things that a woman/man has ever done for you?
  • Question 4: What was one of the best things that ever happened to you?
  • Question 5: Are you working on any personal passion projects?
  • Question 6: What does a typical weekend look like for you?
  • Question 7: What is one of the best presents you ever gave someone or ever received?
  • Question 8: Did anything surprising happen recently?
  • Question 9: What were you like as a kid?
  • Question 10: What are some things you want to do in this lifetime?
  • Question 11: What are some of your life dreams?
  • Question 12: What is it that you most enjoy about your life?
  • Question 13:  Tell me about your closest friends. What are they like?

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