The 3 Secrets to Attracting Amazing Love - Lesson 1

Dear Delightful Seeker of Love,

I'm so excited for you! You're about to make a HUGE difference in your love matter how long you've been looking for matter how much you've been really is possible for you!

In this mini-course, I'm going to share with you the key concepts and strategies that I've used with all of my clients to help them bust through their love blocks so that they could finally attract their soulmate.

Imagine Finally Having the Amazing Love You've Always Dreamed Of...

Imagine being able to clear all obstacles to finding your soulmate and having an amazing, healthy, love-filled relationship!

This mini-course is your road map to finding the love of your life. It consists of eight lessons that will be sent to you daily.

We are going to dive deep into the true, hidden blocks that have been keeping you from your soulmate.

By the end of the mini-course, you will have had big a-ha moments that will radically change your whole perspective on your search for love.

In addition, I want to keep helping you with your love life once you have finished the mini-course, so you are also subscribed to my Love Talk Q&A videos which are published periodically.

Who Am I to Be Helping You?

Before discussing your potential blocks to finding love, let me start by telling you a bit about myself.

For over 25 years, I have helped smart, loving people attract the spine-tingling and lasting love they longed for, even when they thought it wasn’t possible for them.

I've helped thousands of people find lasting love and have better relationships through one-on-one Soulmate Attracting Mentoring, as well as offering transformational programs, including the Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program, the Self Love 2 Soul Mate program, and the Fearless Dating! program.

Also, I had my own many years journey to find love, so I know what it's like to struggle, feel stuck, and even feel despair.

I worked through my love blocks so that I was able to have my happy ending and find the love of my life.

I am happily married to a wonderful woman named Laura, and we have a love-filled, growthful, exciting relationship.

I found the partner of my dreams, and it's my passion to help you find yours in the shortest time possible!

Personal Stories

In this mini-course, you will hear about  "Susan's", "Marcia's", "Eve's", "John's", "Ryan's", and "Linda's" struggles to find love and how they ultimately succeeded and how you can too.

However, before we hear about Susan's story in Lesson 2, we need to first cover some important background information so that you'll understand the subconscious sources of her struggle (and maybe yours as well)...

Lesson 1 - The Inside Story: Why You Haven't Found your Soulmate Yet

How long have you been looking for the love of your life? You know other people who have found their love, so why haven't you? Is this some cruel stroke of fate, or is there an explanation for your troubles?

The good news is that there is an explanation for why you haven't found your special Love yet, and it's not your fault.

The reasons may seem a bit challenging at first, but the great news is that I will be sharing with you powerful and effective methods for overcoming all obstacles to finding your soulmate.

Let's jump right in...

There are three key barriers to finding the love of your life:

  • You are powerfully, subconsciously attracted to the wrong people.
  • You have emotional blocks to being with the right person
  • You are not aligned with bringing your soulmate into your life

One or more of these types of barriers may be the source of the problem. Often, it's all three.

Being Powerfully, Subconsciously Attracted to the Wrong People

If you are attracted to the wrong people, then all of your time and energy will be wasted in painful, dead-end relationships.

This unhappy situation will obviously make it hard to find and be with your soulmate. So, what causes you to be attracted to the wrong people in the first place?

It Starts with Your Parents' Traits...

As you grow up, you unconsciously form an image of your future partner based on the strongest traits of your parents, both good and bad. You will then be subconsciously attracted to people with similar traits.

This is not a problem for the good traits, but it can be a BIG problem for the bad ones!

For instance, let's say that your father had a number of good traits, including intelligence, strength, humor and so on. However, he tended to be emotionally distant and unavailable.

A woman who grew up in this environment would tend to find intelligent, strong, humorous, and emotionally unavailable men the sexiest men on the planet! It's all good except for that one fatal flaw. Sound familiar?

Similarly, if a man grew up with a warm, loving and giving mother who also happened to be insecure and needy, what kind of women might he be drawn to?

It is important to note that you are not limited to being attracted to the traits of the parent of the opposite sex.

Your subconscious image can be a combination of either or both parents, and we tend to be attracted to the negative trait(s) that we found most difficult or painful growing up. (Also, all of this applies whether you are straight or gay.)

Soulmate Exercise — Your Parents' Negative Traits

Think about your parents' worst negative traits. In fact, write them down.

When you have the list of negative traits from both parents, see if there is any commonality with your past significant relationships. You may be surprised (even horrified).

As long as you are strongly attracted to people with the negative traits of your parents, your relationships will be unsatisfying and unhappy, if not painful and doomed (or even traumatic).

Whew, that is a heavy statement, but you may already be having this exact experience. I was having a series of painful, doomed relationships until I finally realized my pattern and did something about it.

The good news is: I have a solution. Even if you've been struggling to find lasting love and intimacy for years, there's a very good chance this mini-course will help you to find a warm, caring and passionate mate to share your life with.

I'll write you again tomorrow and share "Susan's" story with you and how she broke free from her unhappy pattern of being attracted to the wrong men. Stay tuned...

With love,

P.S. This is important. The great majority of people who sign up for mini-courses don't read them!

People are too busy, overwhelmed, or have some subtle emotional block that interferes with following through.

This doesn't have to be the case for you though!

I invite you to check within yourself to feel how serious you are about finding your soulmate. 

Then be in the special minority who actually follow through and take action.

Read all of the lessons in this mini-course so that you can finally have the love you long for.

(You know what happens when you tell yourself, "I'll come back and read this later...")

Stefan Gonick
Soulmate Attraction Mentor and Expert EFT Practitioner